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Filipinas: The Neck That Turns the Head: Women in the Philippines
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17847 |
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CULTURE
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3 / 1990 |
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Margaret Sullivan
Margaret Sullivan, currently a Washington-based writer, has
spent nearly 30 years living in and writing about Southeast
Asia, specializing in the Malay world that includes Indonesia. |
"Men are the head of the household." The middle-aged provincial Philippine woman - a wife, a mother, an English teacher - speaks for all five women at the lunch table. "Women," she continues, with an infectious laugh, "are the neck. What turns the head?"
Another concurs, supplying an example: "I have a friend whose husband is a professional; he works in a firm. The wife started a small poultry [business]. She put on jeans and a shirt, saw to the feed, saw to the shipments of chickens, everything. Little by little, the poultry became quite a successful enterprise. Now that it is so big, the husband always say 'My poultry.' The wife just keeps quiet. But when it comes down to it" - the narrator pantomimes - "she knows who built the poultry up. And everyone else knows, too."
The neck-turning-the-head quip deftly defines the society in which Filipinos operate: at once quintessentially macho and fundamentally matriarchal. This seemingly contradictory yet clearly demarcated tension plays throughout the lives of most Filipinos. However, Filipinos seem not to perceive themselves in an either/or tension, as American women might. Instead, if they talk about it at all, things are both/and: Women are complementary rather than opposite to their menfolk.
Women are at the heart of complex social and economic changes afoot in the Philippines. While there are strong parallels to worldwide changes, they have a distinctly Philippine spin to them. To start, there is the separate noun, Filipina; Filipino is use for Philippine men and, generically, for the people of the country. These two gender-specific nouns reflect the Spanish colonial heritage but
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