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Dollars, Sense, and Motherhood
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LIFE
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9 / 1990 |
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Arlene Rossen Cardozo
Arlene Rossen Cardozo is the author of Sequencing. She teaches
at the University of Minnesota and lectures extensively
throughout the United States. |
Kay Arnold left her $25,000 retail sales position last fall to stay at home full-time with new baby. Ruth Willmar took a long-term leave without pay from her suburban Los Angeles nursing post for a similar reason. Joan Bomberg, once on a partnership track with a prestigious Boston law firm, is now at home mothering, as is Andrea Lewis, a former Minneapolis receptionist. These women and thousands like them from coast to coast have temporarily traded office and paycheck for home and playground, a trend for which I have coined the term sequencing.
Sequencing runs counter to the recent practice of a mother's working outside the home throughout her adult life to contribute to the family's support and/or to realize personal goals. Viewing one's life as a sequence of phases, a married woman's decision to leave her career for a period of years to raise a young family can make sense - both emotionally and financially. And with this option has come a widening of part-time work opportunities for sequencing women who want to resume career activity as their children grow but who wish to postpone full-time work until later.
To couples contemplating sequencing, the foremost question is, How can we afford it? When I began research for my sequencing I assumed that the higher the husband's salary, the easier it would be for the wife to leave her work for a period of time if she so desired. I couldn't have been more wrong! Instead, I found some families where the husband earned over six figures who said they could not afford the loss of the wife's salary. At the opposite pole, some wives had left their jobs to be at home with their children despite the very low level of the husbands'
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