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As a household’s eldest woman prepares the ashure, she
drops a coin into the large container. Later, that coin is randomly included in one of the small containers
of ashure and distributed to some family by chance. People believe that the family receiving the
coin will enjoy prosperity as a result.
Consequently, the ashure custom combines universal
Islam with local tradition into a ritual complex with spiritual,
creative, and practical functions.
In some Susurluk villages a bride would be ritually
introduced to the hearth of her husband’s family on the very
first day of marriage. The new bride would be taken, by her husband’s
mother, to the kitchen where she kneaded wheat-flour and water. The bride then went to the hearth and pressed
her right hand against the wall above it, leaving her handprint
there. Her subsequent
interactions with the hearth continued to take on symbolic
significance. For instance, people said that when a new bride
can revitalize the morning fire with one puff of air, the
rest of her day will go well.
Those new brides who can generally restart the morning
fires easily will be blessed with beautiful babies.
The hearth fire also emits interpretative messages.
Some villagers believe that the bluish glow of the
fire means someone is speaking badly about the male head of
the household. Others
claim that the different kinds of crackles produced by the
fire correspond to the different kinds of conversations about
the household that others are engaged in. The hearth fire also plays a role in many folk
cures and protects the family against the evil eye.
Because the hearth fire is associated so intimately
with the family, it should never be put out intentionally. Throwing water on the fire is wrong; it symbolizes
the family’s extinction.
People usually cover the hot coals with ashes until
they are needed again. An
elderly woman told me that some immigrant women from the Balkans
brought their hearth coals with them to Turkey to ensure their
families’ survival.
The home also contains other special parts, such as
the rafters from which items are hung to cure ill residents
or to protect the home from the evil eye; the walls in which
nail clippings are wrapped and stored to protect their owners
from sorcery and to be preserved until Judgment Day, when
they will be recollected; and the entrance, especially the
threshold, which marks the dividing line between the safety
of the home and the dangers of the outside, spirit world.
One should not linger in the doorway but should pass
through it, saying destur (by your leave) and bismillah
(in the name of Allah) as protection, because one may collide
with spirits found there, especially at night.
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